Could You Resist “The Marshmallow”?

I am a “wee” bit behind on my stack of New Yorkers.  However, on the plane this past weekend, I finally had a chance to read a few.

Jonah Lehrer’s article,  “Don’t! The secret of self-control,” about Stanford Prof. Walter Mischel’s Marshmallow Experiment was really interesting.

In a nutshell, Mischel told a bunch of unsuspecting 4 year:

You can eat ONE marshmallow now.  Or, if you sit here quietly while I leave the room for a bit, you can eat TWO when I get back.

Turns out, kids only lasted on average 3 minutes before they gave in and ate (the damn) marshmallow.  Only 30% of them successfully waited the 15 minutes until the researcher’s return.

Lehrer eventually discovered a “marshmallow resistance correlation” (my term) between those who withstood the treat temptation at 4 years old… and those who had good self-control later in life.

 

Would your 4 year old self have resisted the initial marshmallow and waited for the larger payout?

 

Note: I think I probably would have held out for the second marshmallow… but not sure how my current self would do with the “wine + really good cheese” experiment.  :)

Memorial Day

I don’t know about you… but I will admit to often forgetting the importance of Memorial Day.  It’s not just another 3 day weekend – especially given the current state of the world.

While in Miami this past weekend, I stumbled on an incredibly poignant memorial.  Along Ocean Drive in South Beach, thousands of paper tombstones commemorated those who have fallen in Iraq and Afghanistan (4,985 to date). 

Each tombstone had the handwritten name and age of a fallen veteran.  

Each tombstone was written by a different person.

The simple symbolism, especially with the juxtaposition of South Beach during “Urban Week”, was powerful – it was heartbreaking.

 

The memorial was set up by Veterans for Peace.

Memorial Day

 tombstones

Memorial Day

tombstones

the juxtaposition

the memorial

Napa for the Weekend

I was in wine country last weekend… Nothing beats wine + sun (unless it’s wine + sun + cheese).

 

 

Strawberries on the Side of the Road

 

Little Vid.... and the Bottle

 

 

 

 

 Daisies

 

 

 

 Wine Photo Shot

Obama’s White House, on Flickr

During the campaign, Obama created his own Flickr account.  The photos during election night were amazing – and very personal.

 

 

 

Obama now has a new Flickr account: The Official White House Photostream.  The first set – Delivering on Change – was just posted.  Here are a few of my favorites.

 

superbowl

briefing on swine flu

Michelle Obama with Carla Bruni-Sarkozy, wife of french president

 

a day in the office

Scary Diagrams

Just saw this on the NPR Planet Money blog.

It depicts the inter-connectedness of credit default swaps. 

Kinda reminds you of a really complicated “who hooked up with who” diagram… 

Cheerio Loves!

Smashing holiday in London!   More soon, long flight - quite zonked. Cheers!

(Look Mom, I can speak British!)

 

Parliament

me, in front of parliament

London Eye

The view from the London Eye at sunset was lovely….

London Eye

 the ferris wheel

From the Eye

thames river

 

 The Eye in the Sky

eye from above

 

 Parliament from Above

parliament

 

From the Eye

liane and me

Around London

Karen Punching Police Outside Buckingham Palace, Take #1

attempting to punch policeman outside of buckingham palace.   

 

Westminister Abbey Closed

westminister abbey was closed again.  (it was also closed the last time i was in london.)  fortunately, i was able to get in early monday before my flight.  the poets’ corner was my favorite.

 

 

black cabbies in front of buckingham palace

 

gratuitous tourist shot

 

 Eye over the Thames

eye on the thames

 

Millenium Bridge

liane, raaj, & patella on millennium bridge

London

I usually ponder my next trip for a while, before I buy a ticket.

About 3 weeks ago, though, a high school friend IM’ed me at work.  I was mid work email, so I was ignoring him.  :)  And then he wrote something like, “I was talking to Liane last night… and we’re thinking of doing a long weekend in London.  Flights are cheap.  Wanna come?”

My initial reaction, was… are you guys crazy?   But, I checked and there was a direct flight from Seattle for $530.  We figured out we could get free hotel on Starwood points.  The trip would cost about the same (or less) as a weekend to NYC.  Four hours later, I  had booked my flight.

I fly out to London tonight and am back on Monday.  It’s kinda ridiculous – but you’re only young once, right?  :)

 

 

London Fast facts:

  • 1 British Pound = 1.44 USD
  • Weather:   low 50s F & partly sunny
  • Time: UTC + 0 (noon in Seattle = 8pm in  London)

What’s In An Inauguration Speech?

Robbie just blogged about this, and I thought it was super cool.

ReadWriteWeb created Word Clouds showing the word frequency of recent inaugural speeches.  It’s a good insight into these presidents… and the mindset of the country at the time.

President Obama (2009)

obamaonblack

President Bush (2005)

Bushspeech

President Clinton (1997)

clintonspeech

President Reagan (1981)

 reaganfirst